go look in the mirror...!!!
lol...
;-)

in the earliest part of recovery... my sponsor/(GURU) gave me a little sticker to put on my bathroom mirror that said:

"YOU ARE LOOKING AT THE PROBLEM"...

i can't begin to tell you the number of times just seeing that little reminder saved my bacon... think about it... (or try looking at it this way)... if you don't know what the problem is... or where the problem is stemming from... how can you ever be expected to understand... or to go about correcting it...

so... if someone/something is bothering you/eating your lunch...
remember the slogan...
"THIS TOO SHALL PASS"... (for surely it will)

sometimes life can be just a simple matter of striving to slow down... at least enough to try to listen to what others are trying to say... sometimes we need to learn to listen... so that perhaps we might be able to listen and learn... why is it that we are always in such a hurry... and why are we always in such a stew about everything... maybe... it's just a simple matter of learning to accept everything in life as it comes... which brings to mind... "The SERENITY PRAYER"...
"GOD grant me the 'SERENITY' to accept the things i cannot change...
the 'COURAGE' to change the things i can...
and the 'WISDOM' to know the difference"...

so...

"LIVE AND LET LIVE"...
"LOVE AND LET LOVE"...
"ONE DAY AT A TIME"...
"EASY DOES IT"...
"KEEP COMING BACK"...

because...

"IT'S A WONDERFUL DAY IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD"
LOL...
;-)