Hello all. Im here today because i am lost and i dont know what to do. When i was a freshman in high school (currently about to be a senior) i dated a senior who was (at the time) 18. We were together for roughly 9-10 months and the whole relationship was just a toxic mess. She happened to be the girl to take my virginity and for this whole "year" i was very sexually involved with her. She was a jealous person full of pettiness and just plain manipulative. We eventually broke up and she decided to start telling everyone i raped her when she found out i was talking to a new girl. After my entire life nearly imploded and no one came to talk to me about what happened and i only had my mother and friends i didnt know of the trauma she has caused me years later. She followed me on my instagram about four months ago and when i saw her profile pic and what not appear i had my first FULL panic attack in the middle of class. And over the years the thought of her would give me anxiety and all that but actually SEEING her made my gut feel like i had a knife blending my organs up. After a month or two of her following me she messaged me and asked if i still had some of her things at my house. I told her i did and she wanted to come pick them up. She delayed getting the items for a very long time and we had off and on talk every so often. When the time came for her to actually come get her things i realized that she never made any sort of effort to ask how i was or apologize for what she did so i called her out and all she said, and i quote, was "im sorry. I dont know what you want from me. I can apologize for being childish and having people pick sides" i havent messaged her since. Its been about 5 weeks since we last spoke and i have the urge to speak to her for clarification. Im angry that she has made me scared of relationships. Im angry that her actions have caused me to have distrust with nearly every female i talk to. Im angry that she thinks nothing happened and she can just come back into my life. What do i do?
Say thanks to your ex for teaching you a valuable lesson.
Yes, it is a valuable lesson, and you should be grateful to her !!!
It is time you move on and you grow some balls !
Are you the man, or is she the man ?
Man is suppose to be a mountain ! Go watch some James Bond movies and learn how man is suppose to behave with woman.
Ignore your ex 100% and forget her 100%.
Your focus should be on other women, not on your ex!!!
She is your ex !
Whatever she does or whatever she does not do is not of your f***ing business !!!!
Let it be a lesson for you what kind of women you should never mess with!!!
Next time you recognize similar characteristics in a girl, drop her like a hot potato and run.
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Coach Corey Wayne discusses why you should always be cautious and look for signs that your girl is normal and healthy instead of ignoring signs she's a little loopy due to borderline personality disorder, being passive aggressive, emotionally immature, etc.
How to know if you are or were dating narcissist and how to recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior so you can leave the relationship with your sense of self, self esteem and dignity intact.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who has been doing some research on the Internet in order to figure out where a previous relationship went wrong and why she behaved the way she did. He has been watching my videos for a year and has read my book three times so far. He shares how well it has worked for him and his friends. He asked me to discuss the topic of narcissism and what signs to look out for in case you realize that you are dating someone who displays these toxic signs. He says that since he had the advantage and knowledge of my work and what I teach, he was able to spot these character flaws and end the relationship before he became too emotionally involved. He says it still hurt like hell when they broke up, but he’s a lot better off than he would have been otherwise if he was not familiar with what I teach.
“Every man and woman should be aware of and be able to spot the toxic traits of lovers who display narcissistic qualities. In stage one of a relationship with a narcissist called Elevation, the narcissist heaps praise on you, treats you like a king or a queen, puts you on a pedestal and makes you feel like you have finally found “the one.” In stage two of a relationship with a narcissist called De-Elevation, the narcissist starts to find fault with you, criticize and make you feel like you are crazy or that there is something wrong with you. In stage three of a relationship with a narcissist called Discard, they shut you out, stonewall your attempts to communicate and resolve things and leave you wondering what the hell went wrong. People who have a low self-esteem or low sense of self worth, are most susceptible to the manipulation and abuse tactics of a narcissist. Therefore, you should become hyper aware, alert and observant when a new lover pursues you too hard, blows too much sunshine up your ass and often makes you feel like things are too good to be true as soon as you meet. Always look at what people do, not what they say. When you spot narcissistic behavior, run like hell and never look back. Narcissists are only interested in themselves, stroking their ego, using others to feel better about themselves and getting what they want.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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