Coach Corey Wayne discusses how to quickly get to the point with women to determine if you've got a chance with them romantically so you don't waste your time "chasing the wind."
Why relationships based upon cheating usually don’t last and often end when one or both partners cheat on each other. Why it’s always better to start a relationship with someone who is single and available instead of trying to rip off someone else’s lover.
Why people lie and what it means if you are dating someone who has a problem telling the truth. Why dating devious people makes it impossible to trust them and why you'll never feel comfortable if you stay with them.
Why trusting in other people, loving them and feeling safe requires you to step outside of your comfort zone, risk getting hurt and accepting the reality that some people are inevitably going to hurt you and break your heart.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a twenty-eight year old female viewer who is struggling with being feminine, vulnerable and loving others due to her emotionally abusive and controlling father. She recognizes that due to the traumatic and unloving nature of the family she grew up in, that this caused her to be shy, sometimes cold and unaffectionate, insecure and even inhibits her ability to let go and enjoy sex. She is very comfortable in her masculine energy, which helps her in her career and in business, but not being comfortable in her feminine energy causes problems in her romantic life. She says that when she interacts with a man she has romantic interest in she changes completely and has a hard time feeling safe and comfortable. During the past year she has been working on her feminine side. She wants to know what she can do to feel less inhibited, more loving and more trusting.
“One way you can help free yourself from fear of being hurt in your relationships, is to accept the fact that as long as you are interacting with other human beings, some of them are going to hurt you, say or do mean things to you and getting your heart broken is just an inevitable reality of life. The key is to be aware of and decide what meaning you assign to the circumstances of your life. It’s smart to ask yourself empowering questions like, “What’s good about this? How can I learn from this? How can this experience make me better going forward? Etc.” If you ask yourself good quality questions, even about negative events or experiences, you force your brain to come up with positive & empowering answers. It’s impossible to avoid feeling pain or negative emotions in life, but by being aware of your self-talk and asking yourself good quality questions, you can remain in control of your outcome and destiny, instead of being reactionary and feeling like life happens to you instead of for you.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
Why it's always better to focus on extending invitations of romantic interest, instead of seeking to possess, control or lock someone you desire down to a commitment.
How to determine if the woman you are dating or want to date, is good girlfriend or wife material, and how to handle women who bark orders at you like a dog so you don't become their man-servant or do-boy, and cause them to lose respect for and fall out of love with you.
Women Who Like You Do This...
Women Who Like You Do This... 
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