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MY DAUGHTER IS A BOSSY, TOUGH, SHOUTING, EXPLODING, CONTROLLING, 42 yo ANGRY,VERY EFFICIENT WOMAN WHO LIKES TO SCOLD ME AND PUT ME DOWN.
I DONT LIKE THE WAY SHE TREATS MY GRANDSON AS WELL.
I HAVE ENDURED FOR MANY YEARS, BUT I GOT TO THE BOTTOM LINE DAYS AGO. SHE ASKED ME TO LOOK FOR SOMETHING ON HER CEL PHONE,WHILE SHE WAS DRIVING.
IM A 65yo WOMAN, I WAS TRYING TO DO WHAT SHE ASKED ME AND I SAID "I CANT".( I couldn`t do it as FLASH!)
SHE GRABBED THE PHONE OUT OF MY HANDS AND ANGRILY STATED " YOU HAVE TURNED INTO A USELESS PERSON, AND YOU DONT WANT TO DO ANYTHING"
THEN THE SCOLDING PART STARTED..."YOU ARE GOING TO SUFFER A LOT BECAUSE OF THIS AT AND BLA BLA BLA BLA BLA BLA.
I GOT MAD AND SAID "DONT EVER AGAIN SAY IM USELESS" AND PUNCHED HER IN HER ARM, THE PUNCH WAS RETURNED.
TO MAKE IT SHORT..SHE SAID I WAS DEATH FOR HER AND I WAS COMPLEATLY INSANE.
I KNOW SHE WONT FORGIVE ME, BUT I DONT CARE. I HAVE RESTRAINTED MY IMPULSES FOR DECADES, BUT I COULDNT ANYMORE.
FORTUNATELY I HAVE A CARING, KIND SON BUT LIVES FAR AWAY.
I MIGHT DIE ALONE IN MY HOUSE, BUT AT THE PRESENT MOMENT I DONT GIVE A DAMN!
THANKS IF YOU HAVE READ THIS FAR!
I have been in therapy and will continue.
She isnt aware of what she does and say, and will never change...
She might not allow me to see my grandson (that was a continual threaten for years) but Im in touch with him by phone and he is growing.
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This is a reply to # 2,374,471For anyone who is emerging from an abusive relationship, "acceptance" is one of the most challenging aspects of our recovery.
"...She isnt aware of what she does and say, and will never change..." The role of "acceptance" in this instance is that she absolutely does know that what she is doing is 100% disrespectful, rude, and very hurtful and she simply doesn't care.
Now.....having typed that, it's not an easy fact to accept and "acceptance" does not, in any way, obligate us to "like" whatever the facts are. The facts are benign - they don't have an agenda. They are what they are. And, "accepting" the facts as they are is a truly liberating endeavor because it removes the burden of "fixing" or "changing" someone else's behaviors as if those behaviors somehow belong to us, and not the person doing whatever it is that they're doing.
"Acceptance" is when I finally reached the point where I realized that I didn't have the power or control to bargain for, wish for, demand, force, or hope for more pleasant or comfortable facts. Once I got to that point, I was able to let go, walk away, and focus on fixing myself instead of other people.
I wish you the very, very best in this endeavor. It's not easy to have a child like this, and I know this from personal experience.
Brightest blessings to you
- Re: tolerate verbal abuse from grown... marylo
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This is a reply to # 2,375,439Thanks for your time and reply.
Since that happened I began letting go.I`ll let go and let God.
That is my focus right now, fixing myself.
How long will it take?
I don`t know, but I`ll take one step at a time.
God bless you!
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"How long will it take?" LOLOLOL!!!! I laugh because I asked my therapist this same question, each session. I mean that I was "one of those" clients, and I did everything that she suggested, did the work, I was diligent, and I didn't feel as if I was getting any better, at all.
One day, I was driving to some sort of appointment, and I heard a radio broadcast - Science Friday - and the topic was that physicists had constructed a new atomic clock that was accurate within (I cannot remember) every 150 years.
Neato. But, what caught my attention was that the host said that scientists were unable to explain what time really was. We can measure it's passing, set our baking timers, and calculate how long it will take to get someplace, but there is no understanding or explanation for what time really is. That, for me, generated an epiphany that it didn't matter "how long" it was going to take for me to "get better." Today, I'm better than I was 10 months ago, and that's all that matters.
So, brightest blessings to you. Walking away is hard - painful if grandchildren are involved. But, for people who are that abusive, those children aren't people: they're tools to manipulate.
Again.......brightest blessings and one day at a time!
- Re: tolerate verbal abuse from grown... marylo
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This is a reply to # 2,375,538That was a very good explanation.
Thanks.
I`ll stay in touch with my grandson as much as I can.
I use whatsaapp and later I will try to call him, when I know his mom won`t be around.
Hope that Works!
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