Hey sman1109, you're in luck. I have the answer to your problem. It works, I know because I use it all the time for everything.
All you have to do is use it everytime you have a/ the problem. The more you use it the better.
It's called EFT, and this guy in my opinion is the best. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQEzi0rYL9Y