First time user on this site and first time I've ever had to ask anything like this on any site ever. If I used a word in here thats deemed crude or innapproiate, please notify me and I will change it immediately. I'm going to be completely honest, I havent had the guts to mention all of this to my Dr. If anyone has any wise crack jokes or other offensive/unapprioate rmarks, please take them elsewhere. Thank you. Ok, a little history about myself. I'm a 34yo husband of 11yrs with 4 great kids. My problem started out as a common 5 min quickies anywhere from 3-5 times a week. If by luck we found a babysitter for our kids, I'd get a six-pack and could last from 15-30 mins. But things have taken a drastic change for the worse in the last 4 or 5 months. It started out to where I could maintain longer but had no sensitivity on my part. A couple of times we would do a spur of the moment and things would go back to original problem of being the minute man. That would work for a few times then just quit working. Now the really frustrating and ego crushing dilema. My wife and I have been married exactly 11yrs today. She knows my turn ons and I know hers. We would fore-play for awhile till things starting working like in my teens and 20's. Only difference is I didn't lose my erection in the middle of sex. We would wait a few minutes and were good to again. Or so we thought. I finally got frustrated enough to go see a general practice dr, and after beating around the bush for a few minutes as to my problem, she prescribed me cialis and gave me a sample to try first. she told me to start cut one pill in fourths and start with a quarter. If that didn't help take another fourth. I took the fourth waited several minuts cuddling. Nothing happened. I took the other fourth and after several minutes things started in motion. The pro/ I dont remember the last time I broke a sweat from lasting over 3 mins. But heres the bad news.The whole time I had no sensitivity or feeling down there. Just when I was starting to feel a little better about pleasing my wife for the first time in years, out of the blue he stopped working again. She tried tohelp get things going again but to no avail. After that I was beyond ticked off. I found the other two halves and took them right away. About 2hrs later I could tell the cialis was working again at 2:30 in the morning. So we go for round two. The time was longer then the first but had same issue with no feeling or coming close to ejaculation. Just to lighten the mood a lil, the whole day I was walking like I rode a horse bareback for two days. Well tonigt was our 11 yrs anniversary and the kids actually went to bed with no fussing. I decided after my first experience with cialis to skip the cutting it and take it whole. It done absolutely freaking nothing. I love my wife with all my heart and I am still as attracted to her now the same as the first time we meet. I dont want to have to go back to that woman dr.(absolutely nothing wrong with female drs) Just a lil embarrasing explaining my issues with her. And I don't know if this is relevant but this issue started around the same time. I apologize in advance if anyone finds it crude, but when I was able to cllmax the last few times, there was no pressure anymore. Sorry I had to write a book, but I wanted to get all the facts out there. If anybidy else has had this issue will you tell me if you git it solved and what did you have to do? My only other speculation based on symptoms I read would to be checked for low t. Thank you for your time.