Epigenetics and pre-natal conditions may be a major factor.
My mom was the oldest of 16 siblings. I’ve got over 40 cousins on that side of the family. All my uncles, aunts, nieces and nephews have the symptoms people report on this forum.
I freak them out because I’ll guess at their symptoms, asking them if they have specific symptoms like “do you have to pull over and urinate every 45-minutes while driving”.....”do you jump and answer the phone on the first ring”....”do you have an afternoon energy crash….but get a boost of energy late in the evening”.....”do you ever wake up with numb hands” ….”do you have brain fog sometimes”
The entire family is wired and tired. Never ever returning to homeostasis.
Even my relatives that have had very low stress lives have “adrenal fatigue” symptoms. ….excessive startle response, the whole nine yards. They have no reason to be wired, but they are.
Here are a few hints of how pre-natal conditions and epigenitcs affects off-spring
Prenatal cortisol exposure predicts infant cortisol response to acute stress
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22315044
“The findings provide some of the strongest data in humans that HPA axis functioning in the child may be predicted from prenatal cortisol exposure”
Prenatal stress and risk of asthma hospitalization in the offspring: a Swedish population-based study.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22753636
That was me….. I was hospitalized for asthma as a child.
And then there is epigenetics. In the following study, they exposed future chicken parents to stress. 31 genes became activated/deactivated in the stressed parents….compared to non-stressed parents.
Their offspring were born with with the same 31 genes changes. And the offspring were more competitive and agressive than normal baby chicks. The chicks were wired like us.
Transmission of Stress-Induced Learning Impairment and Associated Brain Gene Expression from Parents to Offspring in Chickens
http://www.plosone.org/article/fetchArticle.action?articleURI=info:doi/10.137...
This might also be the reason every generation seems to be worse than that last. We come into the world with the stress baggage of our parents ... and then add our own.
With Epigenetics ... the fathers environment can influence which genes get activated in offspring.
In fact, in my family, it traces back to my great grandfather.
Years ago, my mom mentioned that her grandfather was "a very nervous individual".
So although we are exposed to our mothers epigenetic signals longer while in the womb, we get a set of instructions from our fathers as well in regards to which genes should be activated or deactivated.
Epigenetics—Sins of the Father
http://www.reasons.org/articles/epigenetics---sins-of-the-father
But ... you can also change gene activation yourself by improving your environment. For example, meditation can deactivate stress related genes
Genomic counter-stress changes induced by the relaxation response
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18596974
So, although parental signals are powerful, we can activate or deactivate genes by what we expose ourselves to
It is interesting. I definitely got it from my mom, but it came from her father, and then grandfather.
It is a strong enough of genetic signal that almost everyone has it. Like 90% of my relatives on that side of the family.
There are a couple of cases where only one sibling has it.
My niece picked up sympathetic dominance from my sister. But her brother (my nephew) seemed to picked up the laid back traits of her father.
It is a little heart breaking to see so many of my family members go through this. Most of them of just covering up symptoms with anti-depressants, anti-anxiety, sleeping pills, etc.
The other thing I noticed in my large family is that the youngest sibling is usually worse. From the reading of epigenetics I have been doing, it seems that older parents are more likely to have negative genes activated, and so the youngest siblings receives more negative genetic instructions.
Father Time: Children with Older Dads at Greater Risk for Mental Illness
http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=children-with-older-dads-at-...
Older Fathers, Autism and Schizophrenia
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-imprinted-brain/201304/older-fathers-...