You have the problem of thinking this is e-mail.
A forum like this is for all who read it and not for anyone person, if you want personal answers, use the telephone.
If you can't take general answers, then don't ask. I have zero idea who or what a osal is or could care less, no one knows anyone and who has the slightest idea who gives a real name or a fake name, etc.
Forums are for chatting, nothing is written in stone, nothing the God's truth about anything! People chat about their ideas of the current day and the next day their ideas may have changed.
If people get their feeling hurt, they probably should get rid of their computer and use the phone or write letters to just their friends that know what not to say so they do not offend their friends.
A Forum is more like a Evangelist passing through your town, the church hires him to say it the way he sees it, because the preacher always wanted to say it that way, but was in fear of loosing his job. I get zero pay and may spend up to 4 hours answering this and e-mails from this forum, if I have to know a person and then know what I can and can not say, then I would never have enough time to answer questions.
It is a fact of nature that those that ask irritating questions are asking for an irritating answer. Those that are into drinking urine, taking vitamins,using Rife zappers, drinking hard water, meat eaters, etc. all know they will get a hard time from this forum. That is why there are many forums and thousands of places on the internet you can go elwswhere to if this one makes you uncomfortable.
Anyone and everyone can say as they please on this forum or take it over or make their own. They must be able to accept the resulting answers with out getting mad. If they get mad, they can simply go away, I am sure I will simply go away as well sooner or later.
I may answer a question to a person, but the answer is always for all, never to one! I never know who is telling the truth about anything and don't want to know the person.
MH