InnerCalm
I think this is pretty easily actually. If one examines the information only and leaves the person who posted the information out of the equation, then all is fine.
In other words don't shoot the piano player.
I am sure there will be growing pains with a few posters but with tight moderation based on
TOS things will be sorted out quickly.
As far as controversial info being posted, that is welcomed because it can make very good debating material. Also if we are too politically correct in the info that can be shared then the entire point is lost. As far as information goes, it is important to be able to examine all kinds of nooks and crannies.
Our society tends to get watered down due to political correctness. Seeing this is an adult forum we should be able to examine a wide range of potential info. if someone is sensitive about a certain subject then they need not be involved in a particular thread. if a person wants to gate keep certain kinds of info then that quickly moves into the arena of censorship.
So then the easiest way to allow good flow is to allow the examination of information without personal attacks on forum members.
This keeps things simple and easy to follow and removes a million grey areas.