Scarred for life? Really now, soldier.
I recall an image on your forum, posted by V several weeks back. Some kind of bi-gender "thingy". Subject: "Here ya go". Did that offend you?
And I'm NOT defending the vulcan. I just don't see it as so far out of his vernacular, so to speak. Would I post it? Probably not. No, definitely not.
What I don't understand is why either of you want to pick up any of V's posts if concerned about the "offense" factor. And that's a purely objective reaction.