HI Jessica,
Firstly let me say I completely understand how you are feeling, and 3 months is quite some time to have to wait for a scan.
I am no expert, but I was diagnosed with PCOS aged 24, an ultrasound scan showed cysts on just one ovary, how ever, PCOS is a condition that can be difficult to diagnose, not every female with PCOS will have cysts on ovaries, it is a complex condition. You may even try visiting the soulcysters website, a website dedicated to PCOS.
I don't think that you have Oestrogen dominance, it is unlikely. One question, did you have regular periods prior to taking BCP's?
The acne, could suggest that you do have PCOS, symptoms can appear gradually, at 15 I had severe acne, slight hairiness, but regular periods, that knocked me out each month as an example.
I have been treated by a herbalist, and herbal medicine has helped me. Herbal tincture blends do work. There are many herbs, Agnus Castus is one that can be used to treat PCOS. One thing I have learned from herbalism and visiting Curezone, it that supporting liver function is essential, liver cleasning and taking herbs that support the liver are all incredibly beneficial. Herbs like Dandelion Root, Milk Thistle and Cynara, all help to support good liver function. Diet too is obviously essential.
I hope that this has given you a little help, I do feel for you and know what it's like to have to wait for scans, treatement and of course suffering with the dreaded cycstic acne. I have suffered so much, my heart goes out to all
Acne sufferers.
Please give herbal medince some thought, I really swear by it.
Just also to say, even if you start by drinking hot water and lemon in the morning, plenty of water throughout the day, and herbal teas such as dandelion and nettle, try a little milk thistle herb. Even doing this, you may see some results.
Take care and don't despair!
All the best!