He doesnt answer my phone calls anym... 
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Me and this guy have been talking on and off nothing serious n' such. We are both young and just living life. I guess he caught into feelings and so did I but I didnt want to take to the next step. On sunday he called me and I said a mean joke on the phone and i didnt say it was a joke when I was talking to him. I guess he took it into defense cuz he never called me after that. we always wud call eachother everyday, text or even email but NOTHING. I waited a few days before i texted him again asking "are you mad at me" no reply...then I texted again and said "sorry if I didnt anything wrong, I want to talk but u are ignoring me...." no reply
*sigh* I am sad but mad at the same time on why he doesnt return my calls or texts...should I leave him alone?
What sucks is he is my friend's friend so its like i WILL see him again. I guess that was the reason for me texting him again. If he was a guy from the street i wouldnt give a damn but since he is my friend's friend, I sorta care and rather have him and I on pretty good terms...
I do not know what to do but give him a taste of his own medicine and i guess stop calling huh?- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... b4byfac3
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- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... #93716
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This is a reply to # 1,179,100That I havent tried yet but I kind of do not want my friends getting in the way.
My friends pretty much do not know our relationship- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... b4byfac3
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MoreThis is a reply to # 1,179,105is this some sort of e-relationship? Or do you know this person in real life?
- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... b4byfac3
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MoreThis is a reply to # 1,179,110nevermind I'm an idiot. I just re-read your story lol my bad. How long has he ignored you for? Is it possible he's extremely busy with work or perhaps even on vacation?
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This is a reply to # 1,179,113Since sunday....Yes, he COULD be busy but I know that if a guy wants to talk to you, he would atleast take 5minutes out of his busy life to call, text, email...something..
Our relationship he wanted more and I wanted to stay the way we were. I guess me leading him on and him getting tired of it possibly made him think how HARD he is putting into this relationship and sees that he isnt gettomg any where with me. And that mean joke I said to him, drawn the line and made him stop calling me.
Thats why i have this gulity conscious....I f*cked things up maybe. Maybe I should give him space and time. I DO want for him to hear me out one day....- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... b4byfac3
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This is a reply to # 1,179,162Ah crap lol sorry. I forgot you mentioned you called and he ignored you. Umm... try contacting him again and if he ignores you I guess you could just wait? Honestly, I think you should just ask your friend(s) what he's up to. It's not like you have to tell your friend(s) about your relationship with him.
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This is a reply to # 1,179,162No but I already texted him twice and emailed. Never did I call.
I bet he looking at his text messages I sent and laughin' at them....(sad face)
I care about him yes, but not enough to give up my dignity.- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... b4byfac3
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This is a reply to # 1,179,179I really do not want my friends involve where as they will wonder WHY him and I arent talking in the first place and I'm in no mood to tell the entire story detail by detail to them. but after reading several posts on the relationship forum, I think I gonna give up. Ol well thats on him not me. I cant keep finding out whats wrong with him and blah blah blah when he dont want to return any of my texts. I think I will leave him alone...........Another guy who has hurted me....but I guess when I do seem him, I am just gonna keep my cool and say hello and keep walking....
I guess no closure sucks...
- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... b4byfac3
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This is a reply to # 1,179,184It's up to you =(
I really think you could just ask your friends without hinting you're in some relationship with him. Just call up your friends and be casual and sneak in a question regarding his whereabouts. If they ask why you're asking, just say you wanted to ask him a question.- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... #93716
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This is a reply to # 1,179,189Thanks I will look into but truthfully I believe my depression, and emotional distress issues cud somewhat play a part in this.He seen it and I made him notice it wihout trying. I have read in books that guys do not want a female with Depression and low self estem where as it only drags them into a emotional mess. And I too can understand. I really do not want to give up on him because he DID stand out from most guys I have talked in the past, but well see....
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This is a reply to # 1,179,195Ok so I texted him twice no answer and I just logged on my AIM account and notice he is on right now as we speak. Should I instant message him or leave it alone??
I already got shot down twice today by him not replying to my text messages this morning and like I said I do not want to be too desperate but I do not want to end without closure. After this I REALLy will call it quits.
Please put yourself in my shoes.- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... b4byfac3
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This is a reply to # 1,179,197Try messaging him again and be casual. Don't sound like some crazy, desperate girl lol.
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This is a reply to # 1,179,200wat should I say.."Hey how it going, you busy'?
Just say hi and see what he says...??- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... b4byfac3
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This is a reply to # 1,179,208As crazy as this may sound for some reason i cant do it. (sigh)
Afraid of rejection of him not replying again...I think my issues get in the way.I think i need to take some time with myself first before opening the doors up with him for healing and closure dont you think??
i'm sorry.- Re: He doesnt answer my phone calls ... b4byfac3
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This is a reply to # 1,179,210Afraid of rejection of him not replying again...I think my issues get in the way.I think i need to take some time with myself first before opening the doors up with him for healing and closure dont you think??
Thanks anyway though
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