Sorry for the wait, computer problems.
OK, this man is not someone I know in real life.
As a dream figure however, (dark hair) he seems to pop up
quite often. I believe he is what is referred to as the Animus.
The soul figure, the opposite polarity... whatever.
This guy and I are quite alike, especially in our indecisiveness
about commitment.
I think that's why I encouraged him to go elsewhere.
To find someone who not only knows what they want,
but has no fear in claiming it.
As I wrote this dream a couple of things became apparent
to me that I hadn't realized before.
One is that I'm a near-sighted brunette.
Another is the symbolism of the double door.
I believe it represents the heart.
Then I used the term "lip-lock"...
Sometimes my user name gets misspelled this way - lol!
Soo it seems I do have characteristics of this "other woman"
but find myself disinclined to identify with her.
There are a lot of "power issues" revolving around her
that I find distasteful.
So much for my dream.
What about your lady friend?
Do you have a way to contact her?
An address or phone number?
If I were you I'd try and keep in contact,
find out about her interests, ideas, beliefs.
See if there is some kind of foundation to build on,
even if friendship is all that results, it will still enrich your life.
Margie