What a horrible shock for you! I've been there and know exactly what that feels like. Take care and I hope things improve for you soon.

Andrew.

That really sucks!

If you need to take a brake you should, but try to recover to normal behaviour as much as possible even if it means going through the motions. That kind of stuff can make you spiral into depths that are difficult to get out of.

It is really hard to advise on these sorts of things because only you know the situation and it can never be fully expressed with words.

The last girl that I have been in love with was simply amazing for 3 years, she moved in and we were the best of friends. At some point I feel it got to her head. I should have realized it when she told me, "The problem with you is that you let yourself be easily manipulated by girls.". The alarm bells went off, there was just too much information in those words. Eventually things started to go down hill.

She started hanging out with friends that were shallow and had fun the un-natural way. She ended up losing her job, racking up 80k on credit cards and with a guy that added to her debt rather than help her.

We are still friends and it hurts me to see her in the place she is in. She is damn gorgeous and she can have any guy she wants, it’s sad that she felt she was "manipulating me" and not realizing that I let her use me because that is what we are there for in a relationship. Instead she is now with someone who is manipulating her, I guess he must be stronger than me.


...but what I realize is that when you truly love someone, you don't need anything back. You will always care about even if they are blindfolded. I still help her when she needs it, and she has admitted to me that the happiest time in her life was with me. I helped her with school, work and past emotional problems. The problem is that she saw that as my weakness.

What can you do?

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This is very sad and I don't know what to say to you 2change4better, except to keep strong with yourself , in whatever way you can.
Sometimes it's hard to see that when one door closes another door opens, often to bigger and better things for us, a door to what we truly have desired and projected into the ether/source.
Remember, the universe is conspiring for your success, we often just don't know it at the time.
Big hugs for you, sending you lots of loving thoughts.

BlueGreen x

Honestly?.. I think all things works for its best! If ur love doesnt love u anymore then he/ she was not THE ONE.

Ok, some words about my case. Closer to the end of last year I split up with my on/ off 4 years boyfriend. I never thought I would be able to get over him. Well, I still LOVE him but looking back he has done so much emotional damage to me that I just got tired and found strength for a split. I always knew he never loved me but still I persuaded myself that he was on the way to it. It is a very long story and here is it not a place to share it. I can give u two options to ponder: I don't know the details of ur relationship but if it was just misunderstanding then try to sort it out. If u see the solid tendency that he/ she is just playing with u then find strenth in urself and turn the page of ur life. That person is not only man/ woman in ur life who can turn his attention to u. As my sister says: there is plenty of fish in a sea. I remember when he did't call me for 1-2 days I became nervous and all I could thought was him.. Then when I split up from him surprisenly for myself instead of loosing my senses I turned to reading professional books (about business, leadership, motivating employees and stuff like that). For the last 2 months I read more books than I did for my life (with the exception of the ones in my institute). Listen, when God close one door he always open another one. U will be fine :)! Keep fasting, take care of urself and turn ur attention to something/ someone else :)

Many blessings to u, dear :)

Nadia x