" The  greater we think we are; the harder we fall upon hitting the wall of reality! " a Kermit-ism...

It has always baffled me as to how some people can come to be so high and mighty!! They breath the same air, drink the same water (generally) and put their pants on the same way; as every one else does... { Allow for some persons who do not wear pants; OK...}

The idea that some people get a " Big Head" as my dear Ole Grandmother used to say; really makes you wonder what kind of funny rope they have been smoking?? HUH!! This has been most of the main problems in the world... When one group starts trying to be superior; or  they tend to think so!  They  soon know better than everyone else what you should do... Do we sense something wrong with this picture??  Like  what you can do for them??

It all comes down to each one needs to look out for his side of the road and learn to help others... Not to be a " Big Boss Buddy" or self designated "Group leader"...

This is when you find that life does not follow your or anyone else's plan...  It follows God's over all plan, which allows for each to make decisions that allow us the freedom to fail... Sorry about that but that is the truth, like it or not!!

Don't blame God; when you get a parking ticket, or back into someone's flower bed, or lose your favorite shirt, or get lost, or fall down the stairs;  etc...  It was your choice and action...   God has given each of us a free agency to make these day to day decisions...  If we did not have a choice then we would be no more than just robots moving as directed...   So start learning to be responsible for your decesions...  Like it or not!!

So when your plans do not meet your expectations then you need to be able to bend with the wind so to speak and and adjust your stride to cope and move ahead!! DUH!!  What an novel idea; HUH!!   To actually think on your own, and then decide what you feel is best for you... Of course; in life there is not any guarantee; so plan for some adjustments and course corrections... 

Just the opportunity to make your own life...  Learn to live it friend... 

BTW: Freedom does not come from following someone else...

See Ya... Kermit