Oh I am so sorry about your loss! I felt a lump in my chest when I read your message. Please don't let what your sisters' husband say make you feel guilty. Those things you gave her could not have caused her heart attack but it hurts when someone blames us anyways. I lost my favorite little sister when I was 17. The pain was so intense I went into a deep depression. Its been 11 years now and since then I had a daughter of my own and named her after my sister. When she was born she looked like she had red hair.(my sis had an unusual shade of red hair) A few months later it was definitly apparent it was the same shade. As she got older she devloped freckles in the same places on her nose and upper cheeks as my sis.

Anyways, I hope it doesn't affend you but I will put you in my prayers!I understand your loss.