I havent read the book but you bring up some interesting points. ( I think I will buy itwhen I get a chance) I too feel "the fury" I cant help it I try and I just cant help it ... it happens! I can be in the best mood and my mother brings it out in me every time, its not her fault shes has done nothing at the time. I try to forgive and forget and get past it (the past), try to think of the kind of person she is and why things were the way they were and I really have come to terms with things but its another one of those things I would like to work on. She really doesnt deserve the "FURY" I give her!!!!