Ha ha ha...
Well I really wasn't venting, to be honest. I'm not upset - just surprised!
As another observation, there are a quite a lot of good looking girls out there, either very attractive or at least reasonably so. I am not jealous, I'm just sayin' ! We're lucky, we can wear makeup and such and that can really help! I like my looks so I am fine with that.

I guess I am looking (if I were looking) for someone that is metrosexual or close to it. A manly man is fine, but if he helps himself look good I sure don't mind. Tweezing a few hairs to eliminate a unibrow (not waxing the entire brows), manicured hands, hair gel, cool clothes - I don't mind! Not required, to be sure, but it is fine by me.

And I'm not really looking at this point in my life, anyway. I am just plain AMAZED to realize (eyes open everywhere I go these days) that most guys aren't good looking! I never noticed that before! I wasn't even thinking about it AT ALL, and I just woke up one morning with that realization in my mind! Out of nowhere, plain and clear!

Glad you found someone you are happy with. That is the important thing. Obviously they don't have to be a super hottie, as long as you are attracted to them that's all it takes.

I think my next post will be venting, but on a different topic.