How kin should we be about it (?)
The right answer is: How long do you want to go on carring your melancoly?
Some people carry it in order to receive attention from other people. Those people may not use the supporting vibrations and will use the black, grey, blue, purple colors to maintain their position.
Other people may chose to live a better life and find more positive method to relate and get attention from peopl. Those people will totally neglect the above mention colors what so ever.
Some people may take a longer path and will combine the joy-supporting colors with the melancoly-influenced colors.
We should respect each other's decision in regards to their own path, unless they are our children, children that yet are living in our home and we sepport their living, in such issue we may force them to take the right truck - the joyfull dance of life.
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