What many people have in life is a failure to communicate...  Either with themselves, their family, their friends, or almost any one in general.... This is BAD, GOT IT!!

So lets get cracking on putting your brain in proper order...  First you need to look at your life.... Remember this was a homework assignment....  Put down an overview of your life... A simple outline form will do...   Most likely on one page...  Don't tell me you can't do it..... I did and I passed the half century mark, so you can do it  too... On this one page get the main things down, then looking ahead as we all should and must do, plan your next step(s)...   I did not say it was easy...  Most of the time what is easy is not always good for you.... 

Once you know where you are based on where you came from, then it is time to see, what you can plan for your future...  Make another list this one will be your wants and wishes list...  Keep it to one page, and remember to be realistic...  Superficial dreams do not belong on this list...  If you have problems with this reply and / or email us...  

Some examples:

 1)  If you are a greeter at WM, and only get $8 bucks an hour part time, getting a beach condo at Daytonia and a new Vette are not in the cards pal...

2)  If you just got into a fleece agreement with some car company, for the better part of your available salary, then going on a around the world cruise is not in the cards either...

3) If you just spent all of your available cash on some dope or other high priced and generally useless fad cloths...  Then getting any kind of education that will further your career, if you had one... is also not in the cards ... 

[You might want to spend some time learning to read, and speak good English, if you are ever going to get a good job, an like it or not! Because English is the main language of Finance, Business, International Flight, International Maritime and it the beat language for composing or writing because it has more superlatives... or ways to say things!! ] 

Not meaning to be negative but you are in a world of hurt, if you do not get your brain trained to what is true and right for you in this life...  Do not, I repeat DO NOT, let someone else decide what is best for you... You  must have an open mind and be ready to change as needs be...  One of the first things to do after you finish the above homework assignments, is sit some where quite, and meditate, and then pray... This type of active(s) will help clear your mind and serve to give you a sense of direction... There are several other good blogs by 9th; you can research for some meditation methods.. 

Plan to get your brain in order....