Well, to me bad sex is not an option...but neither is no sex. You need another option!!! I can relate to having a partner with lower sex drive than myself...IT STINKS. You are not a creepy sex crazed girl because you want to have sex more than once a month, that I can say for sure. Sex is healthy with the right person and its normal to have desires. What I asked myself was if I could see myself lacking what I needed for the rest of my l-i-f-e. Maybe you should ask yourself that same question. Just my opinion.