JamieT, I am so, so sorry to read of your horrific ordeal.
Take each moment as it comes, if you can. I know and completely understand the dreadful anxiety that you must be experiencing.
I wish the very best for you and it might be a very good time time to talk to your daughter about doing work/study to help pay for her tuition. You'll make it to the other side of this ordeal if you're able to focus upon you, rather than what everyone else needs or wants.
Most sincere blessings of courage and health to you