Date:   4/19/2007 4:05:43 AM ( 17 y ago)
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Yeah, that's how insidious domestic abuse is, it's the conditioning of the victim to accept it that the abuser seems to instinctively know is necessary to inflict on the victim (training). It seems that the abuser will consciously choose only people that are warm-hearted and decent so that their victim will be attracted to their abuse as "disciplinary redemption" (after convincing their victim of the need for "discipline").

Evil is a multi-faceted master plan that is almost always very conveniently blamed on the devil (which can only TEMPT), but it is the human being that master minds it and carries it out.

What's more, is that the victim carries this attitude of low self-esteem into daily life and will also believe that they are "needy" of verbal "correction" and deserving of mistreatment from strangers and so called "friends". The victim will actually develop a DEMEANOR of inferiority (inferiority complex) and view others as normal and superior. That is the vicious circle that will cause the victim to believe that their domestic abuser is offering a "kind hand" and loving attention (as a child will sometimes deliberately do things wrong in order to gain the parent's attention, even though that attention will involve discipline, the victim is taught to feel that "needy").



 

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