I am so guilty. When my sister inlaw wanted an abortion at 17, I said I would pay for it. I was supporting the wrong thing. (my brother inlaw stepped in and paid though)
I have thought about that many times over the past, and so has my wife. If we had it to do again it would be very different.
She had three more that I know of after that. Then when she wanted to have a child she had three miscarriages and a premature for the two she did keep.