Numbered one !When you say "he" do you mean like a big white guy with long hair and a beard sittin up in a cloud somewhere?
And his love letters ? Do you believe he(god) wrote the words in those love letters or where his love letters written by others? Who where not gods but claim to know what "he" thinks! And is this the same god that is so filled with love that he created a special oven to fit all those who do not love him so can they can burn it for all eternity? That god? The love of that god is within us? hmmmmm!!! The choice is him or hell you said your self and you think involving your self with that kind of god gives you free will? whew, thats confusing you say there is no guilt yet a threat that is ignored is worse then guilt that is fear, so you may not have to feel guilt but you better feel fear! Right! Your god seems like a pretty threatening god, I think I will avoid him at all costs!