You are so completely wrong about this issue. V and I are different people, and it's amazing you aren't able to distinguish this. You will never be able to come up with proof because none exists.
I suggest you take a time out to collect yourself so you can at least think clearly and work whatever it is you need to work out with him.
Then later the two of you can renegotiate the purpose of the forum and who wears the banning pants.