Re: addicted to webcam girls

Your sex drive is strong and that means you have a healthy body. This is to be celebrated. The way you are celebrating it, however, has become counter-productive and likely to diminish your chances of having a real lover, as maintaining a relationship requires a significant investment of time and attention, which you are spending on the web cam girls.

If web camming were free, would you feel bad about doing it? Or would you find it fulfilling?

If you are using that as a substitute for a fulfilling relationship, and a fulfilling relationship is what you really want, then I would encourage you to think about what is preventing you from finding/having a lover in real life, and spend some time making an effort to remove the obstacles that are preventing you from having a real relationship.

Is it performance anxiety? Is it the fear of rejection? Is it a fear of abandonment? Is it a sense of hopelessness about being able to relate compatibly beyond sexua| relations? People who are confident competent lovers don't usually have trouble finding lovers. Finding a keeper and having the ability to do so is the challenge. Sharing rent reduces expenses and gives you the opportunity to fine tune intimacy skills.

Perhaps you could get involved in social activities and meet some real women who are looking for a relationship. Perhaps you could read some books on how to relate intimately. I highly recommend "How to Be an Adult in Relationships" and "Non-Violent Communication, A Language of Life" of "The Heart of Social Change". Maybe you could find an intimacy coach cammer or real life adult sex education person to help you develop confidence if you have debilitating performance anxiety that causes you to rely on camming instead of having a real relationship. Tweet