I am not so keen on learning through suffering but my soul chose this path. We are going to have a sit down talk when I get to the other side. It is greater joy and less pain or I am not coming back... WE who fall into bodies do not know pain so it is hard for them to comprehend what we are go through. It is like telling a video game player that the simulated Muslims he is killing on a computer screen are real people. Souls just don't get that there is real suffering going on down here in the dimension of time. It may be more sensational for many the souls to come into this dimension but there are other dimensions where love and joy are the learning tools. When not one soul will agree to come into this dimension of pain and tears... time ends... becomes obsolete... but the lessons will not... we will carry those lessons forward...