well said Spud!!!! Look at all the p 0 r n addiction. I have a good friend who is so miserable in his marriage. He's addicted to p 0 r n. No sex in his marriage at all from what he tells me. They stay together for convenience and economic reasons. More like buddies than husband and wife. I agree on the CZ friends. Some of the best people I've ever encountered are on CZ...and you're among them :)