Re: Y is it UR obligation to be the one to

I have no personal agenda.

I do have a value...that outting someone
is not appropriate. If I had witnessed your
outting, I would have done the least, which
is to push the Alert button. I did so for the
post outting A. It was easy to see that the
post remains which speaks to someone else's
values, but mine remain the same. It is not
appropriate. And if I felt inspired to say
more to the issue, like now, I would.

If I had your email and address or full name
and posted it without permission, would this
be something you feel is appropriate?? And
TRY to take all names out of the equation.
Just look at the message it gives to posters
posting or watching. It says we cannot hold
ourselves to a standard. It says, we cannot
keep our word to others, and maybe to ourselves.

If I have learned anything in a walk from a
cancer diagnosis back to a sense of wellness,
it is that the only thing you have is your word.

If you are not keeping your word than you
should not be giving it out as a promissary.
Healing also includes healing the sense of
self which includes stepping up when necessary.

If someone is shoved under the bus, yeah,
there is a good chance I would be one of those
who reach out to see if you are okay, even
help you up and give you a hug.

To be honest also, I am not so interested
in dredging up the past. It is there for a
reason. Many of the issues, it seems a visit
with Dusan could help clear and perhaps help
make room for some healing??

I would prefer to focus on what is going on now.

I am not a moderator. Ask someone you trust if
I have ever hidden, moved, or deleted someone
else's post in my life.

Oh, and the ouch of empathy for A comes from
posting something to the internet where I
assumed I had a level of privacy which I did
not have. I had submitted a friends name to
a prayer circle and the correspondence was
posted on the internet. This was something I
would have preferred not happen, only because
my friend had not been given the choice to have
this be disclosed. So, that is what I am remembering.
I have nothing to hide. If I am guilty of anything,
it is of not being afraid to share how I feel.

I am also okay with what I have shared over time.

As you can see...what I mean about repercussions...

blessings & peace,
Zoe

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