...for copying and pasting such a personal post from so long ago, from ANOTHER forum, into THIS debate forum? What in the world does your post above have to do with anything in this thread? (That's a rhetorical question; we can all see your post has nothing to do with this thread).
If you wanted to offer your consolation or advice, you could have done so on the OTHER forum...if in fact, offering consolation to someone for a marital infidelity that happened many months ago could ever be considered appropriate.
Many Many MANY times I have read your condescending words to females admonishing them to be more 'ladylike'...for you to bring up the pain of a wife's husband cheating on her several months ago from another forum in such a matter - certainly shows you're not the one who should be advising others on social graces.
Will the depth of your -what appears to be- heartless boorishness EVER cease?