Vasectomy - question for women 
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I am curious what women think of a man that had a vasectomy? I have had discussions and some women see a man that has had a vascetomy as less appealing because they are not potient for lack of a better term. Not because they wanted to get pregnant, actually they were just the opposite and didnt want to get pregnant which I found odd for them to say. They said it just changes their view of them and that attraction level to the man. I am not sure how to word it accurately as I dont see it that way and I dont remember their exact words. Maybe it is that whole evolutionary thing where some women are attracted to men they view as the alpha male, best genes, etc...and if you cannot reproduce then it is less of an attractant versus a man that can still reproduce all being the same otherwise?
I am not speaking of women that want to get pregnant, just the average woman. I would love to hear your opinions!- Re: Vasectomy - question for women ANVIL
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MoreThis is a reply to # 917,014I never wanted to get pregnant and just love men that have had vasectomies.
I view them as safe in that regard and have no other different opinions about their looks etc just because they had one. And I really like married men that get the vasectomy instead of their wife getting their tubes tied. One is just so much easier and less painful than the other. It really shows love and respect. I know of men that didn't and let their wifes have surgery and it lowers my respect for them as their reasoning is that they would be less of a man because of it. These men are not from north american cultures or european. - Re: Vasectomy - question for women b2reflect
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This is a reply to # 917,014When I decided I wanted no more babies, I preferred a man with a vasectomy. Then, I was not in need of taking birth control.
As far as ever seeing a man less attractive because his 'virility' was not as potent, I did/do not see that. A man is as viril as he is...whether he has had a vasectomy or not.
Just my 2 cents,
Beth- Re: Vasectomy - question for women #2587
17 y
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This is a reply to # 917,993See, I view it as the two of you do as well. I would have thought that as a typical female response. However, I was in a group of about 10 women and this topic came up and 8 of them felt as I originally posted which blew me away....80% of them. This is why I posted mainly.
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- Re: Vasectomy - question for women midge
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This is a reply to # 917,014I can't believe anyone would see it that way!
I think nothing less of a man with a vasectomy. They took the responsibility to not get anyone pregnant.....that's all. - Re: Vasectomy - question for women #211750
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This is a reply to # 917,014I find a man with a vasectomy unattractive. I feel they are less masculine. This is merely my opinion...keep in mind...but I think it would make them less discriminating on who they choose to sleep with. I see them as possibly having herpes or a man that could pass on an infection. If you have sex with a woman and you know she could possibly be the mother of your child and forever linked to you, I think you would make better decisions. If there is no chance of pregnancy I think they probably lower the bar...which makes them dangerous for a woman to be with. No responsibility...probably less likely to use a condom...everything about it is negative to me.
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