i was wondering if you could tell me an "anal desensetizing lube" that in inexpensive, if it REALLY works, and where to get it. Im too shy to walk into the adult video store but I really want to get some. People have it on ebay but i dont know if it works or not. any info would be great. thanks.
I'm concerned that you want to "desensitize". For one reason, I think you need to be able to tell if there is any pain involved so you know to back off. I understand using a regular lube to aid in comfort but not to totally desensitize.
COntrary to its popularity, petroleum jelly is not a very good thing to use on the body and especially not in an area wher it will be absorved. Petroleum distillates are pretty toxic.
Extra virgin coconut oil is a good all purpose lubricant.