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How can emotional stress affect cancer?
Are you living with an angry or emotionally abuse mate?
Protect yourself from this by leaving if you have to in
order that you may save your life and beat cancer.
Read this report,
New scientific studies have shown that angry people not only die younger, but that they spread their toxic health effects to those they are in contact with. By spreading stress and discord everywhere they go, they have been labeled the new second hand smoke threat of the new millenium. Scientists recommend staying away from these angry types and avoiding exposure to their sick and unhealthy emotional choices. Angry people tend to belittle others and always blame the recipients. Common statements for physical abusivers have shown to be the same statements used by these emotional abusers as well. Statements like, "You made me do that" or "It was your fault" are common avoidance techniques that keep the abusive blamers sick and feeling justified. Investigations into criminal behavior shows that most criminals use the same blaming techniques that emotional abusers use, in that they blame society, the police or the judicial system for their many crimes. Abusers ridicule you for expressing how you feel when it conflicts with their view of the world. It works like this, A feels guilty or uncomfortable about something. A finds a rationale why someone else is to blame. A blames B. A gains several benefits from this. A is excused from what they have done (which means they can do it again). A can also claim social capital as B now owes A something in return for B's apparent failure. A also gets to play persecutor, and get associated pleasant feelings of power. In studies of couples, test subjects were analyzed using
electrical probes attached at several sites on the body, and it was found that
of the couples tested, the abusive or negative mate had an extremely detrimental
biological affect on the recipient of that abuse. If you live with an emotionally
abuse spouse and are trying to survive cancer. You may need to leave the situation
in order to heal?
References, Emotional Intelligence
http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0553375067/ref=sib_dp_pt/103-3127281-7527048#...