kevin...My heart really, really goes out to you. People on curezone keep talking
about this 'law of attraction'. I'm not even quite sure what this 'law of attraction' IS. But for 'me'...I seem to be pulled toward those who are 'down and
out'. I get in the biggest messes, trying to help people who seem to be impossible to help. But YOU don't have to be 'impossible to help', Kevin...if you'll just listen to a few people who are 2 and 3 times your age and know a little bit more than the average teenie bopper.

I jumped on here real quick yesterday...it was a hectic day for me...and I didn't
have much time. (I hope that statement didn't throw #67813 into a seizure) But I
just wanted to see if you had posted and how you were doing. And when I saw your
post that said you had texted your roommate at work about some trivial problem...I started to post to you then, but I just thought, "Oh my word...I do NOT have time
for this today."

Do you know what's going to happen if you keep this up? You're going to find your
bags outside the front door and with no place to go. Now you talk about throwing
some of us into a frenzie...because we care about you...and there won't be a thing
in the world we can do to help you if that happens. Because we're all at different
corners from all over the country. I think invincible is even in Canada or somewhere. We can't run over and give you a hug, take you by the hand and go find
you another place to live and plop the money in your hand to take care of it.
You stepped out on your own....which absolutely was the right thing to do...but now
you're going to have to act like an adult and take some responsibility for yourself
and your actions.

Just start out today on a new path. Don't spend much time on the internet. Evidently the plan your friend has, you pay according to the time you're on there.
And if that's so...the time you spend on the internet is costing your friend money
and using up 'his' internet time.
Spend some of the free time you have today and in the days to come, looking for a better paying job. That way...if it doesn't work out with your friend...you will be
'able' to get your own apartment and continue your new life.

About a week ago, I posted about a program on Larry King....when he talked about the
movie, "The Secret"...I kind of complained in my post, because I said that it took
that panel of 4 or 5....about one hour..to say in about 58 different ways...that,
"Life is what you make of it...it always has been...and it always will be". And
I also said how silly that was, that this movie was the 'talk every where we turn'
because everybody already KNOWS that. (that life is what you make of it...always has been...and always will be). But YOU are proof positive that everybody does NOT
already know that.

It's as simple as this kevin, if a person plays in the gutter, they're going to get
dirty...(referring to your sickening addiction)...
if a person goes around "looking for trouble...with a 'looking for trouble attitude'...they're going to find THAT"
If you get up every morning...and start thinking about yourself...how you feel...
do you have any aches or pains...is someone mad...did that person give you a frustrated look...and on and on and on.....you're going to FIND those things...because that's what you're focusing on...and what you focus on or surround
yourself with...that's what you're going to find!

So get out there today and make this the best day of your life so far. No pity parties...no thoughts of self gratification...people can say that's normal from
now till kingdom come...but to me it's about the sickest thing I've ever heard of.
And if we have the tv on...and that word is even mention...whether by a stand up
comedian or whatever...they're clicked off of our tv so fast I believe it may even
make THEIR head spin. How sick.!!!

Get yourself all cleaned up this morning and get out in your new town... and put your application in several places. Whatever you're making at Walmart...look for
better pay in a better environment. YOU CAN DO THIS!!! But to do it...you're going to have to put all negative thoughts out of your head. Negative thoughts
bring on negative feelings and that brings on negative actions...which just keeps
going farther and farther down hill. WRONG DIRECTION, KEVIN!!!

DO NOT tx your roommate today for any reason. You are going to become a thorn in
his side...and he's going to pull you out and throw you away. My goodness, why can
you not SEE that?

Now get all spiffied up and go out and put your application in a few good places...
check the paper....check careerbuilders.com and type in your town...and when you go
out looking for better pay...put your best foot forward...meaning "BE the person
they would want to hire!" Be friendly...outgoing...be the kind of person that when
you leave with your application in hand or finished and with them....even THEY feel
better for having met you.

I'll be thinking of you today, kevin. And do you know what "I'm" going to be doing
today? I'm dealing with an elderly lady...not a family member...just a lady from our
church...who is a paranoid hypochondriac...and she's 72 years old. She has called
the ambulance to HERSELF 4...that's FOUR times..since last Wednesday afternoon.
Now do you want to spend your life on the road you're on now...and end up near the
end of your life...at 72 years old...still a paranoid hypochondriac...because this
woman is proof positive it can happen.

So there's no better time to take a new path in your life than today....get out there and make this the best day you've had in your whole life. kathryn

"It doesn't take any more time to think in a way that makes your life better...than
it does to think in a way that makes your life miserable."

http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Personality_Disorders/narcissism/inde...


from the link:

Malignant Self Love -
Narcissism Revisited

The narcissist is an actor in a monodrama, yet forced to remain behind the scenes. The scenes take center stage, instead.

The narcissist does not cater at all to his own needs. Contrary to his reputation, the narcissist does not "love" himself in any true sense of this loaded word.

He feeds off other people who hurl back at him an image that he projects to them. This is their sole function in his world: to reflect, to admire, to applaud, to detest - in a word, to assure him that he exists. Otherwise, they have no right to tax his time, energy, or emotions - so he feels.

According to the legend of Narcissus, this Greek boy fell in love with his own reflection in a pond. Presumably, this amply sums up the nature of his namesakes: narcissists. The mythological Narcissus rejected the advances of the nymph Echo and was punished by Nemesis, consigned to pine away as he fell in love with his own reflection - exactly as Echo had pined away for him. How apt. Narcissists are punished by echoes and reflections of their problematic personalities up to this very day.

How do I know so much about narcissism? I am a narcissist and, of course, I've done a lot of research on the subject.

read more at the link. this mans work is without rival.

It sounds like we could all learn a thing or two from your daughter :-)

Thank you for that.

grz