I agree that you never ever should push alternative living on someone else.

BUT- If he is going to sleep in the same bed as you or insist on having sex with you-- especially if he is as pushy as he seems to me, then he better as Heck get himself cleaned out and show a little consideration -- or even condescension to your feelings. Humoring you in this would give you peace of mind.

What he eats is his business- but if he isnt going to show a big heart and condesecend with a simple parasite cleanse when all it takes is downing a few non toxic herbal capsules (that dont even have wormwood in them)just to humor you- -then I would say, "sorry bud" but your stubborness is turning me off- I can't feel intimate with you right now.... "all im askng is just trying a simple herbal parasite cleanse for me-- I am doing it for you".


As far as anything else he eats or does-- that would be his own concern. If he wants to eat 40 Big Mac's and 2000 cokes-- then I'd say, "have at it" since it only affects his own health.

Hi again!

I think in your situation there is another approach than what I suggested at first. -- your husband is very much like my father- in that he is extreemly hard-headed and stubborn and will not bend for anyone. I also have the feeling he may be a little mean-spirited.

Soo, in your case-- you can still take care of your health and even prevent yourself from parasite reinfection by merely purchasing a bottle of Oregano Oil and taking two drops every day-- or after any time you have sex with your husband. This will kill any parasite larvea he may unknowingly be carrying before it can hatch in you. You can even add oregano oil in your bath water or sponge it on you in a sponge bath.

Also- raw garlic cut up-- just one clove, is very good at killing parasite larvea someone else may give you. Just eat it in your salads or sauces every day.

You can even put some raw garlic in your husbands' food too- unless he hates garlic.

I eat it several times a week. I used to eat two cloves a day, but I started smelling like garlic and everyone was complaining so I had to cut it down a little..heh heh.

hey, Too much of it is a good way of having certain people stay away from you! :-D

Brewers Yeast in a drink or used in cooking (tastes deliciuous when you add it in green bean and bread crumb /olive oil dishes.,etc.) is also a good way of increasing your immune system, adding necessary amino acids and the entire B complex naturally-- as well as turn off fleas. When a person gets alot of Brewer's yeast in their diet, bugs and fleas are repelled away. OUr dog loves brewers yeast-- and she doenst have a flea problem because of it.
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Well- anyways, just be careful around your husband if he is the violent type. I will pray for you. I don't want to see you get abused from him if he is that type, just over a parasite cleanse, so if he is like that, the best approach is to take the steps to step up your own immune system as well as taking the oregano oil, and raw garlic . The properties in these enter your blood stream and even kill parasite larvea there as well as in your intestines.

the guy may have abs of steel and all, but he needs a softer heart.

[See February 4th, 2007 edit at the very bottom of this post.]

There is a man named Monty Roberts who is also called the Horse Whisperer.

As a boy, he watched horses, and he learned their body language. He also learned how to 'start' horses (instead of 'breaking' them) in a way that made the horses WANT to be with him, to work with the human companion.

I saw the KCTS, Seattle, video of Monty's work. (I believe KCTS owns it. They are a PBS station.)

There are several important stories in that video, including Monty's pursuit and befriending of a wild mustang. But the most stunning, to me, was Monty's 'starting' of a horse that had been 'damaged' through some kind of mistreatment.

This takes place in his indoor arena which has a gallery above, for visitors.

At the moment Monty has trademarked as 'Join-up', when the horse accepts the man as a friend, people in the gallery have been known to faint. On one occasion, five people fainted at once.

It seems that those who faint may be women who were once abused.

I didn't faint, but that moment of 'Join-up' stunned me profoundly. It was quite beautiful...and easily achieved.

More than that, Monty also talks about his success with children. He has taken in a number of foster children (47), sometimes teenagers. No matter the difficulties he encounters, within a short time the children become his lifelong friends. Monty simply understands the signs of what the young people want, and he knows how to give it to them in a non-threatening, non-combative way.

I haven't yet read Monty's book, "Horse Sense for People", but it is my next purchase.

An elementary school in Britain has adopted Monty's principles, by the choice of the students. He was invited to visit them when he was in the country to consult with people who own valuable horses.

I don't know any better way to understand what this man has discovered than to see the video. A person doesn't even have to think it out, the message, his method, just goes straight to one's heart...it is so natural and true.

Maybe this way is important to us all.

My best,

fledgling

http://www.montyroberts.com

P.S. I just looked, and I can't see "Horse Sense for People" at Monty's site any longer. Hope it isn't out of print! Your library may have it.

Also you may be able to get the video at some libraries.

Meanwhile, here is an article that may interest you... http://www.montyroberts.com/news_artcl_cia.html

Enjoy!

f.

[Edit: Found it! http://www.montyroberts.com/shop_equine_interest.html ]

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[February 4th, 2007 edit - - Apparently, there is controversy (sp?) over Monty's actual results. A family member of his takes exception to his statements. Although, she does admit that the process has been proven to work, for many years.

I apologize if I have misled anyone by admiring the theory. It seemed such a fine idea, that body language and intent could communicate at levels we hadn't necessarily yet tried.

Actually, I still kind of believe that it might work, and, therefore, that the method should be explored more thoroughly.

My best,

Fledgling]