I was always bundled up, when ill, as a child.
My kids won't use covers at night and that is fine with me!

My next gratest wish is to make sure that I know enough to teach my children so we can help family and friends in the future.

This is not always easy--helping people--the incurables came to mind recently.

I was visiting a friend on Monday who called me to come and help her with her with her arm and hand. I had done some massage work on it before and she said it had helped. During our talk she said that the doctor would wanted to inject cortizone in the muscle to make it strong!!!!! and what did I think? She KNOWS what I think. Her children are ALWAYS ill and she is as well. She knows where I stand and thinks it is great--yea okay-- but does not see that I NEVER have to talk about doctor visits. Her kitchen is full of medicines for the kids. This is the same person, who years earlier told me she realy loved herbs. We shared the same midwife,( All of my children were born at home), but for her next child she wanted a hospital birth and drugs/epidural. She now wonders why she has nerve issues etc. etc. Sick people do realy love to tell about their sickness. I tried very lightly, to tell her some of the things I have been doing only to get,"You are too thin". She then said she would call me the next day after her doctor visit.

Another friend calls from the mainalnd a while ago, and opens the conversation laughing saying, "I know you are not into this", as she tells me how much she hates the flu so she went for the flu shot(AKA in my world the death shot) and made sure her little girls got the same. Without taking a breath she goes on to tell me how her little one could not move her leg for a couple of days. This is funny?

My big lesson is to usually keep my MOUTH SHUT UNLESS ASKED and LIVE the example of HEALTH the best I can.

Thank you,
Neesay