It is nearly impossible for GWM friendships with under 40 years of age GWMs when the seeker is over 50 and also without a swimmer's build (yes, I am lifting weights and exercising but improvement is very slow - may never be enough). It seems all want Mr. Perfect and the aging process(it is not a disease) is considered unacceptable, intolerable, and unthinkable. Yes, there may be exceptions, but I have not found these rare exceptions - not even on the younger-older sites. Positive insights and remedies would be appreciated. I have no money for surgery to improve the appearance.