Librastar70
Dear Michelle,
HI, I'm afraid I can't tell you what your furture holds with your husband and your friend (I'm staying away from that type of thing.)
All I can say, is follow your heart. Think things through. Your free will alows you to do what ever you wish.
In an event someone is likely to get to hurt. Only you can decide what to do.
Sorry, this wasn't has helpful as you would have liked.
Good Luck!
Live in the Light
Love, Libra