I agree 100%! Sometimes I think that some of these people have way too much time on their hands that they meddle too much into other people's personal business.

"As human beings we choose to "have a child" and not just breed."

If you choose to "have a child" then have it. If you choose not to "have a child" don't have one conceived at all. Use protection!

"You have a life of not knowing if your child is safe, happy, fullfilled. Which is the worse ? Only the individual can decide."

But if the child is living, he/she has a chance to have a good life(or even a mediorcre one). If the child is dead, there's no way at all for any kind of life, and you'll NEVER know if the child did well or not. Some adopted children even look for their biological family. That's a possiblility. So, you see, you never know.

Blessings,
AnonymousJane_01

"Only the individual can decide"


...but what about the individual who's living inside mom's belly? What do you think THAT person would decide? What would YOU decide?...luckily for you your mom didn't cut your life short by way of vacuum or knife to the head. Thank your lucky stars.