it is the custom of most asian girls to be polite. Do not mistake it as being submissive or docile behavior.

Now try this at your own risk. ;)

Don't stare, don't stammer, talk naturally, and don't hang out there unless she makes it clear she wants to talk... but even if she does want to hang out and talk, make it short and sweet.
Don't worry about what you should or shouldn't say and don't fall into the trap of feeling nervous around her or even intimidated.

After a few minutes of talking to her, tell her you better get back to your friends...or home to get cleaned up now, go to turn and walk away, then ask her "Do you have a phone number", if she responds with a yes, take out a pen to write it down (be prepared with pen and paper...you don't want to fumble around for one) or if you have a mobile phone enter her number into that. This is one of the most common techniques and it very rarely fails.
She will be surprised by this as she is used to men chatting her up all the time and giving her a constant never ending supply of compliments.

What you have done now is intrigued her and she is more than likely to meet up with you again.

Don't make the mistake of contacting her the next day, maybe wait a day or two. It's not that your playing hard to get, your just not making the same error that every other man has made.

90% of the time men are not shy they are just to worried about saying what there thinking as they think it will be an immediate rejection.

When your comfortable around women, you say what you think and at the end of the day if your rejected cause she isn't able to listen to what you have say...... Does it really Matter ?

A lot of the time as well is when a woman is speaking to you and you don't agree with what she has said you nod your head and agree anyway.

This is wrong ! If you don't think she is right tell her, this helps portray your confidence to her.

Let's her know that she isn't fully in control.

The truth of the matter is if your in a conversation with someone and 90% of time there response is a nod of the head or maybe "Yes", what is going to happen, that's right your going to get bored and lose interest very quickly.

Remember if you disagree, shake your head, give a cheeky grin and then say what you think. Even if you sort of agree with what she has to say just disagree sometimes anyway. Most women you talk to will probably not be used to a conversation not going all her way.;-)

Don't be scared to show off your confidence. For some reason men have an inner fear of doing this.

Women find confidence more attractive than looks.

It is that simple. Ask any girl and she will tell you.

Women are drawn to confidence.

Confidence creates attraction.

Attraction creates a sexual emotion.

When you approach a girl it is not about having this big long conversation about all the news of the day.

Guys have set in their head that when you approach a girl you have to talk to her for a long time before you can get her number.

That is not the case.

One: A girl will be less likely to go into a full conversation with you in a bar or mall or where ever you may be.

Two: Why ? The situation does not call for it, she could be with her friends, she could be in a rush, she could be busy.

Three: When you approach a girl throw the theory away that says you have to sit and talk to her for hours.

Four: Intrigue her, get her number and then meet her. You will then both have each others full attention.

Five: Always go somewhere fun on a first date. Go to the Mall, the beach, a theme park. Somewhere with a good fun atmosphere.

dude.. she has a boyfriend, don't try to break them up.. just be good friends with her, and if they should happen to break up you'll be in the perfect position :)

Heeeeey. What's up buddy? Sounds like you and me got a similar problem going on. Haha. I, too, just started hanging out with this girl, but after telling her I liked her, she said, 'What? I have a boyfriend'. Ouch! and WTF. She didn't even give off any signs of having one. It's like a punch in the gut. Anyway, just try to keep the relationship on a friendly level... so if she does happen to break up, you will be first in line. Be there for her. Make her laugh. I think patience is a biggie too.

Gosh, I remember those flirting days! I still flirt sometimes, despite being married. Its fun, what can I say. I'd flirt with her, she has a boyfriend, SO WHAT! If she doesn't have a ring on that finger she is fair game. Ask her out, be persistent and be a good friend. Don't get pissed if you get rejected, but be someone she can confide in and come to. If things go wrong with the current boyfriend you will be a great shoulder to cry on. Good luck!!!!