heheheh.. I'm all for women robbing the cradle. After all, we age slower, for the most part! :)
my d.o.b. is 12-24-1954 = 3/6/1 = 28/1
challenges: 3/5/2/2
personal year: 5 until next b-day
his is 07-04-1966 = 7/4/4 = 33/6
challenges: 3/0/3/0
personal year: 8 as of last b-day, until next b-day
Okay. 4 day people and 6 day people are very attracted to one another and have great times, lots of harmony, but the 4 day person usually becomes dissatisfied because they want more direction and stability from the 6 person, who wants it in return from the 4 person. Not sure if that is playing here since you're a 1 life lesson # and that adds a lot to the dynamics. You very well could give him a lot of direction. So the trick then is how to do it without jumping all over the male ego or destroying the passion because you're more of a mentor than a lover? :)
You have 2 as a challenge twice, which means you choose very interesting partnerships, and have your own reasons (not always the typical reasons since you have that 1 there) for creating partnerships and must take care to not do too much or too little.
And yep, thinking there's a bigger picture and that you're supposed to do something for your partner often comes under the 2, as they understand this instinctively
. Now you may be correct, you may very well have a contract setup with this person to come together and help each other out somehow, but never forget that some contracts are created so that you learn how to LEAVE them, resolve them peacefully. So if this ever becomes an unhealthy partnership for you, don't think you have to stick around or else you fail your higher self. It just doesn't work that way.
This guy has a lot of potential with the 33/6 as a life lesson number, and you'll be a role model for him in many ways. If that disintegrates into your being an enabler for him, tho, stop! Empowering a person is fantastic, and I think you'll be good friends for a very long time because of how you empower each other, but if he gets into a negative state and just takes what you have to give without improving ever, RUN.
The true test of this relationship will be whether you can keep the fun in it. If you can do that, it will last a long long time.
Numerology hardly ever says "this is the one" because it mostly just gives pointers as to your setups personality wise for this life. Oh and timing too. Timing wise, if you guys last well into 2005 then as far as he's concerned you could be his "the one." :)
Most people don't set themselves up with just "the one" before they incarnate. They set themselves up with many many options and it depends on how long they stay in a relationship, plus how much personal growth and development they experience, as to how many relationship potentials they actually manifest.
In fact, most people stay in relationsihp for way too long karmic wise and growth wise because of how our culture looks down on people who have a lot of relationships, which is too bad. Very few people setup a life-long partnership.
Hope that makes sense! :)