heheheh.. good thing you posted the Hot or I might have missed your post! LOL! :)
Okay... let's see... you're in a 2 year, he's in an 8 year, so no challenges there, pretty compatible vibe actually. :)
It may be interesting to ask him the 3 numbers question and see what he gets... and ask yourself, when thinking of this relationship, which 3 numbers come to mind? :)
You're a 27/9 life lesson number, 3 month, 2 day, 22/4 year.
He's a 34/7 life lesson number, 11/2 month, 9 day, 5 year.
Your challenges are 1/2/1/1, his are 7/4/3/3
I like the coupling of 9 and 7, especially since he has a 9 day. That makes him more of an "out there" 7, less of a withdrawn, moody 7. the 11/2 month and 5 year add extra dimensions to the usual qualities of life scientist - he's much more willing to travel, if not physically then with the mind, try on new ideas, look for inspiration in every-day things. He should be very careful wtih how he speaks, as affirmations are very powerful for him. Any time he makes an afirmation a habit, or creates a visual affirmation/treasure map kind of wish, they are very powerful for him.
You both have humanitarian and spiritual type themes. Since you chose 1 as your main challenge, your counter-theme is that of project manager with too many projects and/or impulsiveness.
His 3 is a similar thing, but taken more towards business relationships than projects, as in, whoever he meets is part of his project or whatever they're into he gets enthused about, but they are often not of the same caliber and class as him so legal problems and broken promises ensue. Or, conversely, he works alone on things but doesn't show them to others. A poet MUST inflict his poetry on the ears and mind of his generation to truly be a poet.
You both need to focus and concentrate your efforts constructively on only a few things and work through the boring, mundane parts to see all of the processes and cycles through to completion.
Most of your "gardens" are soil-less, concepts, ideas, visions, dreams. The trick is, how do you turn your philosophy and inner knowings towards something concrete, commercial, fulfilling, tangible? For your ideas to really help the world there has to be a balance of earth and air, grounded wisdom, invocation/evolution, as much width as height, as much mundane as magic.
Hope that makes sense! :)