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Zeke
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Ok, heres my problem. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months now. I'm crazy about her. The only real problem I have is that when ever she talks about work it always seems to be about guys flirting with her or her "jokingly" flirting with guys. For awhile it really didn't bother me but now it's starting to make me feel jelious. I know that she won't put up with those kind of feelings though. I don't know how to talk to her about this situation without it turning into a fight. Because of this another problem has started to develop...whenever she talks about this stuff, I don't say much back because I'm worried what might come out. I would appriciate any suggestions about this matter.
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You are crazy about her-Being crazy about another is dangerous and not healthy.Sometimes medication is the only thing that works for this.
Instead of focusing on her,put the responsibilty on YOU and ask yourself if this is really what *I* want.
- Re: My girlfriend talks about guys a... Justme
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MoreThis is a reply to # 61,610You know what I think?
I think your girlfriend is not getting enough attention from you and the only way she knows to go about getting more is to let you know that the guys at work are attracted to her. It's her way of boosting her own ego which evidently needs boosting at this time.- Re: My girlfriend talks about guys a... #165850
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This is a reply to # 61,614I think i kinda agree with 'justme' as i have done this with boyfriend before...just to try to get a little bit of attention, and to say to him ...
'hey u know, other guys like me, so u better pull your socks up'
so pay her a little attention and make her feel wanted ;)
i seriously doubt she has any kind of feelings for these guys.
good luck
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This is a reply to # 61,610Zeke, I do not know why you even tolerate this tacky behavoiur from her for a nanosecond. IF she needs more attention from you, then surely she can find a decent way to get what she craves.To try to get it by deliberatly provoking you in this way is childish ,self centered and pathetic. This stategy belongs in early teens, and if you and she is older than this, then I would really examine whether you need or want a child as a girlfriend.
If I were you I would go find someone else who was not so self absorbed and who did not need to make you feel bad in order to may herself feel good. Good hunting !Advertisement
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This is a reply to # 61,622Jac - I do not agree.
I believe if you love someone, you have to work at the relationship. We do not know the details of Zeke's relationship with his girlfriend. We don't know how old they are, and that makes a big difference.
Zeke - Let her know how much you love her and how wonderful she is to you. It's not difficult. When she walks in the door say "Hi Beautiful" or "Hi Smiley" or pick one of the traits you love best about her. Trust me on this.- Re: My girlfriend etc.,-Zeke, listen... #163786
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This is a reply to # 61,624Ok buddy, you may follow the advice from 'Justme'and in so doing you will be operating by guesswork and mindreading.If you do believe that your girlfriend is attempting to make you pay more attention to her by trying to make you jealous, then by showering her with attention you are reinforcing her behaviour.That means that you can expect a lot more of this kind of stuff.Why? Because she saw that it worked on you! Is it OK with you for her to do this ? Obviously not, otherwise you would not have been distressed by it and then post it on this site for advice.
Her reasons for doing this are really known only to herself.The point is this -her attempts to make you jealous are crass and infantile and are devoid of any respect for your feelings.Why would you want a girlfriend who does that to you?
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well, you could just communicate with her in an adult fashion and explain to her that what she is doing disturbs you and that you want to know the reason behind it. that's all you have to do. talk to her. instead of guessing whether she wants more attention or whether or not she's just doing this because she is she. if you realyl know her, you won't have to guess and you'll know for certain, but it is ok if you don't know her that well because people do change. just talk to her and things will be better after it. no more unneccessary thoughts.
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