Ok are you ready just take yourself and your girlfriend to a tony robbins seminar and start changing your life surround yourself with positive people . its a start. you wont regret it ..

later

Well I thought about what you said and then read my post again.Where did I say that I snapped at her?
You suggested that I talk to her and explain WHY I objected to her bulldozing through my conversations.Gee, I would have thought that any adult would have known why without an explanation from me .Then I considered your comment about telling her how I FEEL when she does this.
Gee,all I can say to that is that I want her to stop because I am getting real ANGRY.I am not about to make this into a "festival of feelings".
Anyway I told her once again that I consider her behaviour to be rude and intrusive and interfering and disrespectful and socially primitive ....and so on. She made a few feeble defensive statements and said that I was unreasonable and generally ignored my points of discontent, so I decided that I did not want her in my life and said so - she has two weeks to move out.End of problem.

Well that is a new twist on my story -girlfriends babbling away when their guy is on the phone to a bud?
I think that I said to my lady friend( ex)that her behaviour was rude, intrusive, disrespectful and socially primitive. Those words equally apply to some female who cannot be quiet long enough to let a guy talk to his friends on the phone. If I had a pet parrot and it squarked away in the background when I was on the phone, I would open the cage and grab it and point it towards the nearest big tree.
This interfering behaviour is a boundary problem too.
It seems that these women do not understand where and when your busines is NOT their business. Open those cages guys !!