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My half-sister was married to a great guy, but he did not like sex. They were madly in love with each other, but the sex part was nearly non-existent. He just did not like sex. And the worse part was that she told everybody including doctors hoping for some miracle. It never happened. She spent many sleepless nights. To have a kid, she had to adopt. Both were fertile. How horrible. She stayed with him, but was a nervous wreck.
I'm going to say that there is no medicine around that will create that basic desire. And unless there is some quickly curable medical reason, you are going to be very disappointed. You are in for an uphill battle.
And things probably won't get better. Sorry, but this isn't normal. I suggest moving on....soon.