It's easy to know what's normal, IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW. I find far too many people don't want normalcy for a whole host of reasons. I really don't care (no offense) why you don't accept what's naturally a fact, I concentrate on what is. For instance, man/woman unions are "normal" because the vast, overwhelming majority of all human beings procreate. It takes a woman and man to do that. That's God's design, not MtnnDeww's! I didn't make the rules, but I observe them. Here's an analogy I used in college during a pre-law debate with others such as yourself: I can find a person out there that really, truly believes that 2 + 2 = 5. Yes I can. Now, that person will be incorrect factually, but I guarantee that this person can, in turn, find another person in the world who really, truly believes that 5 is the correct answer. Does that make 5 the correct answer? No. 2 + 2 will ALWAYS be 4 no matter how many people don't want it to be so. You may really, truly WANT a man/woman union to be 5...but it isn't. 2 + 2 = 4 and a man/woman union is normal. I don't "hate" you for not being normal, in fact, far from it. But don't expect ab-normal or alternative (for lack of a better term) behavior or unions to be labeled "normal". As Julia Roberts said in My Best Friend's Wedding, "Jell-O can never be Creme Brulle."!

Thank you first off. Now as far as my experiences, they have all been with people that I have known pretty well. Friends I have had for a while. My very first experience was a bit strange because of the fact that it was my first time and I wasn't sure that what I was doing was actually acceptable. But after the initial go 'round, I was more willing to experiment and such. For the most part I have never really been the one to approach someone with the idea, I have more often been the approached. But either way, you can kind of feel someone out when it comes to whether or not they are open to the idea. I just feel that as far as you are safe with your endeavors, then experimentation is a wonderful thing. Oh, and as far as stress on the relationship, it has to be thoroughly discussed - by all parties. There must be guidelines. Things you would feel uncomfortable about, etc. etc. Be honest, completely honest. If you take everything into consideration, it can be an experience that all involved should be able to enjoy. Hope this helps!

I agree, a carpet licker is a carpet licker. You don't walk in the door and your mom ask you how was your day and you say. Oh ok i guess,but i did eat some pussy today. Even your momma would slap you.

Damn, aren't you a little bit hostile? Why are you so worked up about this? I by no means am confused, I know that I would never want a relationship with a woman. That is what makes me HETEROSEXUAL! Yes, I have experimented with women, I am young for Christ sake. I think that most young people do experiment with things. It does not make us bisexual, gay, straight, whatever. Who you are is what determines what preference you might have. I am a very grounded, intelligent, hard working, passionate, ambitious, strong willied woman who is completely straight with a past full of all kinds of experiences both sexual and not. Man, how did I manage to step on your toes with this one?