Sorry, I should have been more specific. Think of the qualities which most predominate in your mind. For example...perhaps he's very fearless or strong-minded. It could indicate that these are qualities which you are cultivating within yourself....or that you perhaps need to focus on. I've been told that most often when we dream of other people that they represent aspects of ourselves.

I had a dream about a girlfriend of mine not being afraid to kill a snake. I was VERY afraid of the snake. She was representing my own fearlessness which was growing and was at a point of transition for me. The dream was simply pointing out that I too was fearless and capable of "killing the snake". It was not really about her at all.

Does this make any more sense? Sorry if it wasn't clear

Janaki

Hm.

From my perspective, it is very important for you to work this through. In order for you to give yourself fully to your marriage, it seems that you need to get to a place of resolution with this previous relationship. It is generally best to have fully released a previous relationship before becoming seriously involved in a new one, but this does not always happen.

From my own personal experience, I learned this. What happened in my case, was my husband felt insecure due to my never having achieved closure with the man I dated previous to him. This tension created problems in our marriage. For the sake of your marriage it would be good for you to not share these dreams with your husband, as it could create pain in him that is difficult to heal. It would be good for you to find somebody helpful to assist you in disconnecting with your previous boyfriend. This is my perspective on your situation.

Best wishes,

Hally