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You can still have a wonderful relationship with her... it's just a different type of relationship. You can talk to her and feel her energy around you... it's just a matter of paying attention to the little things. I believe that even though our loved ones are not physically here on earth, they continue to live on in a different way. Our relationships with them are different than our relationships while they were on earth. But those relationships exist nonetheless and can be very special.
I know that this post is over a year old and have no idea if you'll ever see it or not. Even if you don't, I hope that it will help someone who is grieving and needs to feel connected to their loved ones again. It's difficult when someone we love crosses over. We miss them and wish they were here physically with us. Sadness is natural. Even when I am feeling overwhelmed with sadness, I talk to my family members who have crossed over. It doesn't take away the pain of living on earth without them, but it helps me to feel connected once again. I know they are a part of my journey, that we visit one another when I sleep, and that one day I'll be on the spiritual plane with them. It does help.
I send you positive, loving energy and hope that you are healing and growing through your loss. Take care.