Hello everyone. I have been coming here for a while now, but have been to reluctant to write anything. But now I have this huge problem. I have been together with my girlfriend now for a little over 3 years now. We just sort of celebrated our 3rd. anniversary last week. There is a problem though. Our anniversary was just a huge fight between us. Things have never been 100% okay between us. She did cheat on me once about 2 years ago, and I forgave her for it. Well I have been very patient about everything, but I feel that I am losing just that. She doesn't want to hang out with me at all, talk on the phone, or even have any sexual relations at all. The last time was about 3 months ago. But now that is just part of the problem. I have a friend, a female friend that I have been good friends with for about 2 years now. My girlfriend has been cool with me and her being friends, when we first met she was my friend's girlfriend (confusing huh). Anyways, she hasn't been with him for some time now, and likes to talk to me a lot more than usual. She has admitted to having feelings for me, and has even tried to get me on the phone for phone sex. But being the faithful guy, I turned her down. It has gotten to the point where I feel that I have a choice to make. My friend, or my girlfriend. I get this terrible feeling that my girlfriend is waiting for someone else that strikes her fancy to come along so she can dump me. But this other girl, seems like the commited type, a person to settle down with. With my girlfriend, I feel that I can't trust her everywhere she goes, caude she is a terrible flirt and I still get that feeling that she is looking for someone else. and my friend just really seems more mature, like she is trustworthy. Anyways, i'm babbling. I just don't know what to do, and could use any feedback possible. Thank you for reading this.


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